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Do You Have to Sell Your House in a Divorce in Florida?

Must you sell the marital home in a Florida divorce? Learn your options: buyout, deferred sale, keeping the house, and when selling is required.

January 20, 2026By Antonio G. Jimenez, Esq.

Do You Have to Sell Your House in a Florida Divorce?

Quick Answer: No, selling is not required. Under Florida's equitable distribution law (F.S. 61.075), the marital home can be divided several ways: one spouse buys out the other, you arrange a deferred sale, one spouse keeps the house in exchange for other assets, or you sell and split proceeds. Forced sale only happens when no other option works.

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Your 4 Options for the Marital Home

Option 1: Buyout (Most Common)

One spouse keeps the house and compensates the other for their equity share.

How it works:

Get home appraised
Calculate equity (value minus mortgage)
Divide equity per your agreement (usually 50/50)
Keeping spouse pays other spouse their share
Keeping spouse refinances to remove other from mortgage

Example:

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Home Value: $500,000

Mortgage: $300,000

Equity: $200,000

Each Spouse's Share: $100,000

Wife keeps house, pays husband $100,000

(via refinance, asset trade, or payment plan)

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Best when:

  • One spouse wants the house and can afford it
  • Sufficient equity for meaningful buyout
  • Keeping spouse can qualify for refinance alone

Option 2: Deferred Sale

Both spouses remain owners, but one lives in the house. Sale happens later.

Common triggers for eventual sale:

  • Youngest child turns 18 or graduates
  • Residing spouse remarries or cohabitates
  • Specified number of years pass
  • Residing spouse chooses to sell

Pros:

  • Children stay in family home
  • No immediate refinancing required
  • Time for market to improve

Cons:

  • Both spouses remain on mortgage
  • Non-residing spouse's credit at risk
  • Can't fully move on financially

Option 3: Offset with Other Assets

One spouse keeps the house; the other gets equivalent value in other assets. This approach aligns with F.S. 61.075's requirement that courts "must begin with the premise that the distribution should be equal."

Example:

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House Equity: $200,000 → Wife keeps

Retirement Accounts: $200,000 → Husband keeps

Result: Equal distribution without selling

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Best when:

  • Significant other assets exist
  • Both parties prefer different assets
  • Clean break desired

Option 4: Sell and Split Proceeds

Sell the house, pay off the mortgage, split remaining equity.

When this makes sense:

  • Neither spouse can afford the home alone
  • Both want a fresh start
  • High conflict makes co-ownership impossible
  • Home is underwater or has minimal equity
  • Market conditions are favorable

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When Selling Becomes Mandatory

A court may order a sale if:

SituationWhy Sale Is Ordered
Neither can afford mortgageAvoid foreclosure
Can't agree on buyout termsNo other resolution possible
Buyout would be inequitableOne spouse can't pay fair value
Both want to sellMutual agreement
Home underwaterMore owed than it's worth

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How to Avoid Being Forced to Sell

1. Qualify for Refinancing

Before negotiating, get pre-approved for a mortgage in your name alone. Include potential alimony as income if applicable.

2. Have Buyout Funds Ready

Options include:

  • Cash savings
  • Retirement account offset
  • Family loan
  • Home equity loan after divorce
  • Structured payment plan to spouse

3. Negotiate Creatively

  • Offer other assets in exchange
  • Propose deferred sale with clear terms
  • Consider temporary arrangements
  • Be flexible on timeline

4. Document Why You Should Keep It

  • Primary caregiver for children
  • Work from home
  • Special needs accommodations
  • Proximity to children's school

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The Selling Process in Divorce

If you do sell, here's how it typically works:

Step 1: Agree on Listing

  • Choose realtor together (or court appoints one)
  • Agree on list price
  • Set minimum acceptable offer

Step 2: Prepare Home

  • Make necessary repairs
  • Stage for sale
  • Schedule showings

Step 3: Accept Offer

  • Both spouses must agree to accept
  • If you can't agree, court decides

Step 4: Close and Distribute

  • Pay off mortgage
  • Pay closing costs
  • Pay any liens
  • Split remaining proceeds per agreement

Timeline

  • Listing to closing: 2-4 months typically
  • Add time for repairs, staging if needed
  • Market conditions affect timeline

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Tax Considerations

Capital Gains Exclusion

  • Single filers: Exclude up to $250,000 gain
  • Married filing jointly: Exclude up to $500,000
  • Requirement: Must have lived in home 2 of last 5 years

Timing Matters

  • Selling before divorce final: Can use $500,000 married exclusion
  • Selling after: Each uses $250,000 single exclusion
  • Deferred sale: Make sure you still qualify when sold

Transfer Between Spouses

  • No tax on buyout transfers incident to divorce
  • Must be within 1 year of divorce (or per decree within 6 years)

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Protecting Yourself Either Way

If Keeping the House:

✅ Get spouse off mortgage via refinance

✅ Update deed to your name only

✅ Budget for all costs (taxes, insurance, maintenance)

✅ Have emergency fund for repairs

If Leaving the House:

✅ Get fair compensation for your equity

✅ Require refinance to remove your name

✅ Set deadline for refinance/sale

✅ Protect credit if spouse misses payments

If Selling:

✅ Use neutral realtor

✅ Agree on pricing strategy upfront

✅ Put proceeds in escrow until divided

✅ Plan for where you'll live next

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We Help You Make the Right Choice

Deciding what to do with the house is one of the biggest divorce decisions. At Divorce.law, we:

  • Analyze all options specific to your situation
  • Calculate true costs of keeping vs. selling
  • Negotiate fair terms for buyout or sale
  • Protect your credit and financial future

Don't make a $100,000+ decision without expert guidance.

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About the Author

Antonio G. Jimenez, Esq.

Florida Bar #21022 · 20+ Years Experience · LL.M. Trial Advocacy

Antonio is the founder of Divorce.law and creator of Victoria AI, our AI legal intake specialist. A U.S. Navy veteran and former felony prosecutor, he has handled thousands of family law cases across Florida. He built this firm to deliver efficient, transparent legal services using technology he developed himself.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Can my spouse force me to sell the house in Florida divorce?

Not directly, but if you can't buy out their equity share and can't agree on a deferred sale or other arrangement, the court can order a sale. To avoid forced sale, you need to either pay your spouse their share, trade equivalent assets, or agree to keep joint ownership temporarily.

What if I can't afford to buy out my spouse?

Options include: trading other assets (retirement accounts, investments) instead of cash, arranging a deferred sale where you stay but sell later, creating a payment plan to buy out over time, or selling the house and splitting proceeds. A creative attorney can help find solutions.

Do I have to refinance to keep the house?

Usually yes. Your spouse will likely require you to refinance and remove their name from the mortgage. If you can't qualify alone, you may need to include alimony income, find a co-signer, or consider a deferred sale arrangement. Staying on a mortgage for a house they don't own is risky for your spouse.

How is house equity split in Florida divorce?

Under F.S. 61.075, house equity is divided equitably—courts must begin with equal distribution unless factors justify unequal division. Equity = current market value minus mortgage balance. The split applies whether you sell (split proceeds) or one spouse keeps it (buyout amount). Exceptions exist for non-marital contributions, like a down payment from before marriage, which remain separate property under F.S. 61.075(6)(b).

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